Whenever an old single man starts dating a young woman, who is considerably younger than him, all eyes gape at him, some with a surprise and some with shock. No matter if the old man is a celebrity or a commoner, but he is bound to gain some attention if his personal life suddenly starts rocking!
What do old, single men want from dating younger women?
If a man has never been in a relationship, or has been in and out of many relationships, he always expects from his next relationship, and his expectations are never bound to one thing. Particularly the older men, who want some spice in their lives, would prefer younger women who can bring back that lost excitement that they crave for. When a man progresses in age, his thought, mindset, everything changes. He starts seeing life more maturely and finds logic behind everything. Relationships need to be meaningful and friendships need to be strong and stable. He has no room for drama or wastage of time.
But when it comes to casual dating, or simply being in a causal, non-serious relationship, his choices change. He looks for someone who can drag him out of his monotonous routine and boring life for some time in a day. He wishes for that someone who can fill his life with colors, once again. In his partner, he starts looking for that young man, who he used to be, long back in time. He starts looking for his younger self, and wants to feel young again, which is why he prefers to date someone much younger than him.
An older woman, particularly someone who is around his age, would be much more mature, sensible, and would have seen and experienced life just as he did. There will be a different kind of relationship with an older woman, compared to what a young woman can provide.
Young Women Also Look for Older Men
Not only older men want someone fun to hang out with, but in many cases, even young women prefer an older partner than someone around her age. She wants good financial stability, mature outlook towards life, and a meaningful relationship, something that an older man can provide in abundance. There have been many cases where older men have expressed how having a younger life partner changed their life, and many young women also shared how having a mature life partner added a new meaning to her life.
There are more than one reasons to why older men prefer dating younger women. Biologically speaking, as the age of a woman progresses, her fertility reduces and chances of her bearing an offspring also come to a halt, slowly as she paces towards menopause, but with younger women, that is not the case.
A young woman is more fertile and capable of bearing a child, something which attracts the older men, hence they look for someone young, as a partner.
As science rightly claimed, that a man can be a father of 365 children in a year, but a woman can only give birth to one child in one year, so the seed-spreading tendencies are higher in males, compared to the females, hence they look for younger partners, who have higher sexual drive, and are more energetic compared to older women.
Young women also prefer dating older men because they prefer experience – both in life as well as in bed. They want their partner to know and understand their needs, and can provide for her in every sphere of life.
No matter how the relationship is, understanding, patience and the will to be together are the three most important elements that are responsible for success of it. Doesn’t matter if your partner is young or old, if you love her, you will be happy, and happiness is the sole reason why we humans want a relationship.